Also, Jordan just got his braces off and looks so handsome! He's now in 8th grade, this fall will head off to high school, gulp. He's so good with his brother, he's such a big help, even when Carter is beating on him.
Saturday, January 15, 2011
Preschool
Carter started preschool about a month ago, we chose an early learning center in our community, I was so nervous I just knew he'd have a hard time. Turns out he loves it. He gets to ride the big bus that comes right to our door. It was strange how well he adjusted to school, it just shows how much he needed the stimulation. His teacher has a masters in special ed and early childhood education, she's so good with Carter and all his unique needs. He's even eating snack with the class, most days. I was a nervous mommy and sobbed that whole first day, but now we have both adjusted. Way to go Carter-Bug!
Also, Jordan just got his braces off and looks so handsome! He's now in 8th grade, this fall will head off to high school, gulp. He's so good with his brother, he's such a big help, even when Carter is beating on him.
Also, Jordan just got his braces off and looks so handsome! He's now in 8th grade, this fall will head off to high school, gulp. He's so good with his brother, he's such a big help, even when Carter is beating on him.
Sunday, November 14, 2010
It's a Boy
Well we found out that we are having another boy! I guess we only know how to make one kind of baby. This is our 3rd boy. Maybe this one will like to shop! The important thing is that he appears to be healthy. We've had an ultrasound every month since we found out and each suggests his brain structure looks good; no fluid, vents look normal, head size normal, no abnormalities detected (other then that kick stand between the legs, that wasn't suppose to be there). So everything looks good, I guess I'll take all the boys I can make! New family score Boys-3 Girls-1 maybe we should adopt a girl pet.
Sunday, November 7, 2010
TOP HEAD & BRAIN BLOG AWARD
Our little blog created to keep family & friends updated has won an award for being in the "Top 20 Head & Brain Blogs." This blog reaches thousands around the world living with Hydrocephalus and other brain conditions. I have been blessed with the opportunity to share our story which in turn has helped others dealing with their own situations, what an honor. I received this award from nominations and votes from my readers and I would like to thank all of you. Honestly this blog helps me as much as it helps others, its very theriputic to write our experiences and I love that Carter's story has been captured. So again thank you to all who nominated and voted for our little blog, I apprieciate it.
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
To Conceive to not to Conceive...
I know a few Hydro Parents we've met since Carter was born. Some stopped having kids after their hydro baby and some had more children. I often looked at the parents who chose to have more and wondered about their emotional journey to that decision. For Eric and I this was a very difficult decision, we always wanted more children, but after going through what we've been through we weren't sure we could or should try again. I'm sure 'typical' families think about the years between their children, their budget, space, whatever. Eric and I worried about a life threatening brain condition happening again. Would it be irresponsible of us to try again with the chance of it happening a second time? Would we be able to handle the pregnancy with "what if's, worries, and the unknown"? What if it happened again? What if something else happened to this baby? We've also met a lot of friends with many other birth defect babies, we are now under the impression that the 'miracle baby' is the healthy developing baby. There's so much that could and does go wrong with a developing baby. This is such a frustrating fact for a mom like me who didn't drink caffeine during pregnancy, took prenatals every day and did everything the books said to do.
We also had Carter tested for the x-linked factor that causes Hydrocephalus, he tested negative. This means that I didn't pass this condition down through genetics. This is an important fact when weighing this decision.
Eric and I discussed, prayed and came up with the decision to try again. It took us about 8 months of trying...brutal brutal trying! :) and finally we have a bun in the oven! We are now 12 weeks pregnant. I have been watched and monitored as a very high risk and our doctors say everything looks good so far. They cant look at the brain structure until about 17 weeks and we are undergoing a bunch of other genetic testing on this baby to make sure nothing else is going on. So its a brutal wait and try not to stress few months. I am super sick like the other 2 pregnancies. I dont know if thats a good sign, I had one extremely healthy and one not so healthy so I dont know how to think yet. We pray each night for the health of our children including the one cooking. So we are only living on a decision based on the faith in our Heavenly Father to bless us with a "healthy, typically developing child". There came a time we had to hand over the stress and worry and just live on faith. We have certainly have handed over control to our faith several times when Carter was clinging to life, and we will continue to have faith with this baby.
We also had Carter tested for the x-linked factor that causes Hydrocephalus, he tested negative. This means that I didn't pass this condition down through genetics. This is an important fact when weighing this decision.
Eric and I discussed, prayed and came up with the decision to try again. It took us about 8 months of trying...brutal brutal trying! :) and finally we have a bun in the oven! We are now 12 weeks pregnant. I have been watched and monitored as a very high risk and our doctors say everything looks good so far. They cant look at the brain structure until about 17 weeks and we are undergoing a bunch of other genetic testing on this baby to make sure nothing else is going on. So its a brutal wait and try not to stress few months. I am super sick like the other 2 pregnancies. I dont know if thats a good sign, I had one extremely healthy and one not so healthy so I dont know how to think yet. We pray each night for the health of our children including the one cooking. So we are only living on a decision based on the faith in our Heavenly Father to bless us with a "healthy, typically developing child". There came a time we had to hand over the stress and worry and just live on faith. We have certainly have handed over control to our faith several times when Carter was clinging to life, and we will continue to have faith with this baby.
Friday, July 16, 2010
2010 Golf Fore Carter
2010 Golf Fore Carter will be at Oquirrh Hills Golf Course 1255 East Vine Street in Tooele, Utah. Saturday July 31, 2010. This is a 4 person scramble, shotgun start at 8 am. Our teams are almost full, however, there are plenty of holes still in need of corporate sponsorship, only $50 to advertise your company. We are also in need of more raffle prizes. Please email hydroinutah@gmail.com if you are interested in donating, sponsoring, volunteering or playing this year. Golf Fore Carter has been sponsored by a non-profit organization making your contributions and donations tax-deductible. We have a wonderful support system and we appreciate all those who make this event possible including all of you returning golfers.
For more information please see Carter's Golf Blog by clicking here on his logo
For more information please see Carter's Golf Blog by clicking here on his logo
Friday, June 18, 2010
Medical Update
I guess its time for a medical update. Conditions/Problems/Resolutions/blah blah
Hydrocephalus: Carter's pressure is under control and shunt is working nicely for now. His shunt anniversary is January 4, 2008. Its pretty rare for a long shunt life, especially a shunt thats been recalled. But his is doing well. Many shunts fail due to blockage and infection. Bodies are designed to fight off foreign items especially long plastic tubes in the brain. We feel blessed to have such a long shunt life so far. Many of our Hydro buddies have had hundreds of shunt revisions.
Macrocephaly: Well the definition of this is just simply a large head and a few other traits, so needless to say Carter still suffers from this. The only way to fix this is a Neuro Cranial Reconstruction Surgery. At this point, it would be mearly cosmetic with huge risk, so we are passing on this for now.
Cortical Vision Impairment: We just went to our Ophthalmologist who we see every few months. He just declared Carter's CVI totally resolved! Carter's had eye muscle surgery in January 2009 for ocular misalignment which worked beautifully and he now has super straight eyes. They usually veer back but Carter's hasn't so far. He's been patched for about a year. He's also had vision therapy once a week since he was 3 months old. Something must have worked because CVI is now resolved!
Hearing: I just posted this but here goes again. Carter just got tubes placed April 2010 then a few weeks ago he passed a very extensive group of hearing tests with flying colors! NO hearing loss, wheew. Crossed this off the worry list.
Physical Therapy: We are still going to Shriners, but we took a few months off to let development kick in. I am a big fan of letting Carter do most of his learning and exploring in a natural environment instead of a therapy room. We mostly get direction from our therapists and then we practice in a natural environment just like all other children learn these valuable things. Here's our milestones
~1st Smile: 5 weeks
~Rolling over: 6 months
~1st Word: 11 months
~Holding Up Head: 15 months
~Sitting Independently: 16 months
~Pull to Stand: 18 months
~Cruising: 19 months
~Crawling: 20 months
~Walking: 2 yrs 4 months
~Running: 2 yrs 4.5 months :)
Feeding Therapy: Feeding is always our battle, he's eating a bit more then before. All food must be of slight texture and must be dry. He's still staying alive on Ensure bottles. Lots of Cheetos, dry cereal, crackers and on a lucky day he'll try my cooking. Sometimes Eric and Jordan are brave enough to try my cooking as well.
Speech Therapy: Carter is very behind on speech, he said a bunch of words at about 12 months old and one day he quit saying all words. He's back to saying about 4 words now, just since the tubes. We are seeing speech therapy twice a month.
Occupational Therapy: This is still an important part of our week, we try to put Carter in a group setting with other children or in a chaotic setting (such as the Luau) and he has a total meltdown. The sensory part of his brain doesn't know how to filter so chaos over loads his system. We work with our wonderful OT to teach him how to handle this kind of stress. This is a big task for Carter. Needless to say he has a hard time really going anywhere. He's also very schedule oriented. If we throw off his normal schedule he has a hard time recovering.
Beans: He had double Hydrocele Inguinal Hernia surgery in January 2009. All is well in that department, he gets embarrassed if we talk about this too much.
Developmental Delay: He tests on about an 18 month old level in most areas. There are a few areas that he is on target with a two year old but there are a few areas of development that he tests much lower. But for the overall test scores he's real close to 18 months old.
Hydrocephalus: Carter's pressure is under control and shunt is working nicely for now. His shunt anniversary is January 4, 2008. Its pretty rare for a long shunt life, especially a shunt thats been recalled. But his is doing well. Many shunts fail due to blockage and infection. Bodies are designed to fight off foreign items especially long plastic tubes in the brain. We feel blessed to have such a long shunt life so far. Many of our Hydro buddies have had hundreds of shunt revisions.
Macrocephaly: Well the definition of this is just simply a large head and a few other traits, so needless to say Carter still suffers from this. The only way to fix this is a Neuro Cranial Reconstruction Surgery. At this point, it would be mearly cosmetic with huge risk, so we are passing on this for now.
Cortical Vision Impairment: We just went to our Ophthalmologist who we see every few months. He just declared Carter's CVI totally resolved! Carter's had eye muscle surgery in January 2009 for ocular misalignment which worked beautifully and he now has super straight eyes. They usually veer back but Carter's hasn't so far. He's been patched for about a year. He's also had vision therapy once a week since he was 3 months old. Something must have worked because CVI is now resolved!
Hearing: I just posted this but here goes again. Carter just got tubes placed April 2010 then a few weeks ago he passed a very extensive group of hearing tests with flying colors! NO hearing loss, wheew. Crossed this off the worry list.
Physical Therapy: We are still going to Shriners, but we took a few months off to let development kick in. I am a big fan of letting Carter do most of his learning and exploring in a natural environment instead of a therapy room. We mostly get direction from our therapists and then we practice in a natural environment just like all other children learn these valuable things. Here's our milestones
~1st Smile: 5 weeks
~Rolling over: 6 months
~1st Word: 11 months
~Holding Up Head: 15 months
~Sitting Independently: 16 months
~Pull to Stand: 18 months
~Cruising: 19 months
~Crawling: 20 months
~Walking: 2 yrs 4 months
~Running: 2 yrs 4.5 months :)
Feeding Therapy: Feeding is always our battle, he's eating a bit more then before. All food must be of slight texture and must be dry. He's still staying alive on Ensure bottles. Lots of Cheetos, dry cereal, crackers and on a lucky day he'll try my cooking. Sometimes Eric and Jordan are brave enough to try my cooking as well.
Speech Therapy: Carter is very behind on speech, he said a bunch of words at about 12 months old and one day he quit saying all words. He's back to saying about 4 words now, just since the tubes. We are seeing speech therapy twice a month.
Occupational Therapy: This is still an important part of our week, we try to put Carter in a group setting with other children or in a chaotic setting (such as the Luau) and he has a total meltdown. The sensory part of his brain doesn't know how to filter so chaos over loads his system. We work with our wonderful OT to teach him how to handle this kind of stress. This is a big task for Carter. Needless to say he has a hard time really going anywhere. He's also very schedule oriented. If we throw off his normal schedule he has a hard time recovering.
Beans: He had double Hydrocele Inguinal Hernia surgery in January 2009. All is well in that department, he gets embarrassed if we talk about this too much.
Developmental Delay: He tests on about an 18 month old level in most areas. There are a few areas that he is on target with a two year old but there are a few areas of development that he tests much lower. But for the overall test scores he's real close to 18 months old.
Monday, June 7, 2010
Luau for Carter
This Friday June 11th the World Class Fireknife Dancers "The Mulivai Brothers" are going to hold an event in Carter's honor. They will have dinner starting at 7:00 pm followed by their famous Fire Dance Show! All proceeds will benefit Carter's Hydrocephalus Fund. It will be held at The Benson Grist Mill here in Stansbury Park. Dinner menu includes: Teriyaki Chicken, Kalua Pork, Dinner Roll and Rice. Adult price is $10 Children price is $5 and families are $35 which includes both dinner and the show. We would love to see our families, friends and neighbors there. No need to RSVP just bring a friend and come out for a great night. Hope to see you there! Questions, email us at hydroinutah@gmail.com
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